The next day we had a picnic in my uncle’s favorite NJ town. Twenty of my relatives and I gathered in the parking lot of a local grocery store. As the sun set, the air got a little chilly and my Florida man gave me his sweatshirt. My family sat in a semi-circle as we watched the nearby fireworks. It was a perfect vacation.

Well, since then I’ve gotten married, had my daughter, I have a son on the way, but one thought remains: how do I make Independence Day feel magical to them? I think my 14mo old is a little young for fireworks. The truth is, she doesn’t like the beach just yet, and we tried a parade last year, which seemed fun, but with the temperatures expected to be in the 90’s I don’t know if I want my fair little girl sitting on the side of a road just yet. With all this in mind, I’ve come up with the following ideas:
1. Finger paint Fireworks!
Most little kids love exploring things and getting messy. Take a white crayon, draw some fireworks and watch them appear as your child paints over them with red and blue paint. Did you remember this elementary school trick? It seems like magic to young kids. If your 8,9 & 10 year olds are anything like my cousins, they might like to write “secret” patriotic messages to each other with the white crayon and then paint over them to “reveal” the secret.
2. Sidewalk chalk flags!
3. Patriotic Music
We all know the Star Spangled Banner, America the Beautiful and Take Me Out to the Ball Game, but chances are, if your children aren’t school age yet, these songs are new to them. During the week of Independence Day listen to these songs with your kids and talk about what it means to see “purple mountains majesty,” I guarantee it will turn into a giggle fest.
4. Festive Food

5. Holiday Shopping!